Lore’s deck has seen many celebrations over the years, including a wedding (mine) and multiple birthday parties. It was a poignant moment when Nicolette, Lore’s daughter, noted this would be the last time for a family gathering on the deck. The house will soon be sold.
Along with other memories of Lore, spoken by loved ones, I was asked to read an excerpt from The Road to LaReta. I had practiced many times, but knew it would be difficult to get through without crying. I was right.
This is the scene from which I read: Webb
saw very little of his daughter after her first year of life. She’s now three and
a half years old. It’s two days after Dorothy’s funeral and Webb has to go back
to Montana. He’s talking to LaReta on the back porch of a relative’s home.
Webb and
LaReta sat on the back porch step. “Are you my Daddy Webb?” LaReta asked.
“Yes, I am.”
“Do you wiv
in ‘Ontana?”
“Yes, I do.”
“Did I wiv
there too?”
“You did.
You and your mommy were there, not very long ago. You visited me last Summer.
Do you remember that?”
LaReta
looked long and hard at Webb. “Maybe,” she grinned, tilted her head to look at
him and grabbed her knees to her chin.
“Reta,
Blanche and I have to go back to Montana today cuz I have to go to work. But
I’m planning for you to come live with me again real soon.”
“Can mommy
come too?”
This was a
conversation Webb wanted Laura to have with LaReta, not him. He wasn’t
prepared, but there was the question… He looked across the back yard, paused
and then turned to LaReta.
“Your mommy
won’t be able to come with you, Reta. She got real sick. So sick that she …
couldn’t come home from the hospital.”
LaReta
looked at him wide-eyed. “She’s in the ho’pital? I want to go see her.”
“No, she’s
not there anymore.”
“Where is
she? I want to find her.”
Webb rubbed
his forehead, stretched his legs out, pulled his pants at the knees to shake
them toward his shoes, then took a deep breath, cleared his throat and asked, “When
you were at Mrs. Bailey’s, did they have any animals, Reta?”
“Yup. Mommy
rode Sweetheart to school every day. And they had a cow and pigs and some
chickens. Some of the chickens got their heads chopped off for supper. Oh, and
they had a kitty and a dog, too.” LaReta was proud of being able to name all
the animals at the Bailey’s house. “I used to scare the kitty sometimes.”
LaReta wrinkled her nose and tilted her head at Webb again. “Mrs Bailey didn’t
like it when I did that, but it was funny.” LaReta giggled and then got serious
again.
“But where’s
mommy?” She was determined to get answers.
LaReta’s
story about chickens getting their heads cut off for supper dissuaded Webb from
continuing his explanation about death using farm animals as an example. Damn, I could do more harm than good with
this talk. And it’s one I never intended to have!
He wasn’t
sure if another tact would work or not, but decided to give it a try. From
everything he’d been taught in Almont in the basement of the Lutheran Church,
he believed it was true. At least for LaReta’s sake and his own, he wanted it
to be true.
“Reta. Your mommy
got so sick she went to Heaven to be with Jesus. She’s there now and someday,
we’ll all be able to be with her. She can’t come live with us in Montana
because she’s in that beautiful place called ‘Heaven’ where no one is sick and
everyone is happy. She misses you, but knows you’ll be there with her one day
too.”
LaReta
looked at him with disbelief and then sadness. “Why didn’t I get to go with her
to Heaben?” She started to cry.
Dear Lord, help me out here will you?
Webb wrapped his
arms around his daughter. “Sometimes, Reta, that’s just the way it is.”
Webb sat
back and held LaReta at arm’s length. “Hey, want to drive the car again? I
think we have time.”
Sniffling,
she bobbed her head up and down. Webb picked her up and galloped to the Chevy. That
brought back giggles and smiles.
The car
eased down the driveway and then picked up a little speed. “Wookit me! Wookit
me!” LaReta bounced up and down in Webb’s lap, her small hands stretched to the
top of the big steering wheel. With one hand around LaReta’s waist, Webb’s
other hand managed the steering wheel from the bottom as the old Chevy snaked
it’s way slowly down the road. His arms and heart were full.